Session Etiquette
1. You should plan to arrive 10-15 minutes prior to your appointment time, to assure that you are not late. I hate to be kept waiting. Tardiness is a pet peeve of mine and is sure to sour my mood, which will definitely reflect upon the mood of the session.
If you are late, be prepared that you will be charged from the agreed upon time, not your time of arrival. I will also end the session at the agreed upon time.
If you are more than 20 minutes late, I will consider you a "No Show". Your deposit will be forfeited, and you will wind up on my Blacklist.
Life is complicated, emergencies come up, unforeseen situations happen ... If this is the case, communicate this to me as soon as possible. I can be very understanding when it comes to true difficulties.
2. Please do not arrive more than 15 minutes early, expecting me to be ready to begin session. I may have other sessions prior to yours, or other life obligations. Please be respectful of my time.
3. I expect you to be well groomed and showered prior to seeing me. If you are unable to shower prior to your arrival, you may do so upon your arrival at my studio. I have clean and well appointed shower facilities. If you plan to do this, convey this to me prior to your arrival. I will provide extra time for you, so it does not take up session time.
4. Turn off all cell phones and any other communication devices prior to beginning of session. Unwanted interruptions are a sure way to spoil the mood.
5. On meeting with me make sure to leave the agreed fee for the services in plain view for me to see and don't be surprised if I take a moment to count it (wouldn't you if your positions were reversed?). If I find that you have not paid as agreed, I will not consider seeing you again.
6. Do not expect me to have condoms, lube, toys, or any item of sexual nature, as by Iaw I cannot. I will have items for bondage and Domination, such as floggers, restraints, gags, etc. My studio is well equipped with such items.
7. I will establish a “safe word” at the inception of session and expect you to use it when appropriate.
8. In our initial phone conversation, we will discuss the types of activities that are of interest to you. The Client Questionnaire that you fill out will also be used as the basis for the types of activities I will introduce in session. Do not attempt to add other activities/interests once the session has begun. This is considered "renegotiation" and is not acceptable once play is under way.
9. Do not try to manipulate, or use underhanded tactics, such as "bratting", bribing, or renegotiating in order to get your way, or to get me to do something you desire. Such as "punish" you, for bad behavior, take pity on you, etc.This is considered "topping from the bottom" and will not be tolerated. I consider this type of behavior to be ample reason to end a session.
10. When in my company, do not assume that I will keep track of time. If you should happen to exceed the paid amount of time expect to pay additional fees. Like with any industry time means money and you are not entitled to any freebies.
11. As I mentioned, my time is valuable. I don't mind having a short chat with you, prior to beginning of play, but please do not attempt to hang around to chat with me, after session has ended. I am a friendly person, but prefer to keep things professional. To that end, do not call or text me in order to chat. Our relationship is that of Mistress/client, not boyfriend/girlfriend, or of friendship. Please be respectful of boundaries.
12. And last but not least, always remember to tip me, even if it's a minor amount. Small and large gifts are also welcomed. Feel free to look at my “Wish List” page for ideas.
If you decide to meet with me, make sure to follow these simple rules and you should have no problems and will most definitely have a time to remember.